"There must be more than this." At one point or another, every one of my clients feels this.
I've been there.
I've assumed I was just not going to have a passionate love life.
I've spent night after night crying in the bathroom, feeling so alone.
I've felt like I'd never be able to erase the memories or feelings of sexual assault.
I've gone to sleep feeling like a failure, feeling unloved, or feeling like I couldn't bring myself to even bring it up.
I've spent tremendous time and energy being incredibly frustrated with myself, trying to figure out why I couldn't be the free, healed, vibrant, woman that I so badly wanted to be.
I'll never forget the path I took when I was ready & decided to truly change things.
While sitting on the bathroom floor of a studio apartment I shared with my husband, after crying for an hour, I asked for help.
I declared that I was willing to do the work. I wanted to heal my heart, soften the armor I had built up around my body, uncover who I really was, and finally have a passionate love life.
I declared that I was tired of feeling frozen and I was ready to get real. I was ready to get uncovered.
I made a promise to myself that if I found my way, I would teach other women to do the same thing.
This work is me keeping my promise.
I wanted the same thing for every woman. Women who are so tired of feeling broken, dulled, exhausted, and stuck. Women who are ready.
To heal their trauma, to rewrite their love stories, to unwind the religious baggage and shame they had around sex, to get rid of their guilt, to uncover the relationship they've always wanted, to feel comfortable in their bodies, to feel sexy & confident, to have better, deeper sex, to reconnect with their spouses, husbands, partners, to reconnect with THEMSELVES.
This is the begining of the rest of your life.
This is for the woman who wants more freedom in her sex life, especially if you are ready to release past trauma or shame.
Our work unfolds in a 6 month commitment, with three coaching sessions per month and access to my courses, text & email support.
It is not for everyone.
But, if you are ready to reclaim your body, your sexuality, your desire, and your pleasure, it is for you.
When I was ready to step into my uncovered life, I decided that I was willing to do whatever it took, even if the journey was going to be painful, hard, and expensive.
And it was. Over the next ten years, I read everything I could get my hands on about sexual healing & sexual freedom. I got my Masters from Yale and my PhD, while I supplemented my academic work with trauma healing & training, ten years of healing modality work, therapy, coaching, and support.
I found my way home. I found a way to uncover who I had been all along: free, healed, whole, sexy, passionate, alive, divine.
I want everyone to have access to what I needed, but our version will be laced with pleasure.
Your sexual freedom and liberation is a part of our collective freedom.
When we do the brave work of healing our trauma around sex, our freedom ripples outward, for everyone. We face our shadows and our shame, uncover the inner beauty of our bodies, and become even more fully who we are.
Women in this course repeatedly rave about how working with me helped them to drop their guilt and shame, heal their trauma, clear their doubt around their bodies, reconnect them to their husbands & partners, experience far less anxiety around sex and, yes, move into the experience of feeling pleasure, every day.
Access to all of my online programs We will handpick which pieces & modules of each course feel right for you to work on at a time, but you'll have access to it all
Messenger Access & Support In between sessions, get the support you need day-to-day with voice notes and texts over messenger. You will always get a reply within 24 business hours, but usually it's within 3 seconds. ;)
A box of self care tools & sensual gifts Start your training off on a pleasurable foot with your welcome gift of self care supplies, treats, and self pleasure tools from me.
Transform Your Everyday Life with these DAILY Tools: Weekly Meditations, Weekly Love & Sexuality Affirmations, Truly Transformational Homework, & a curated UNCOVER book list
Hi! I'm Dr. Kimberly Rose Pendleton!
I am a Professor & Women's Empowerment Coach to smart women who are ready to unleash their sexy, soulful side. I'm also a digital course creator, and a thought leader on the subject of sexual empowerment for women.
I didn't always feel that you could heal from trauma or uncover a life of pleasure. I didn't always believe that feeling sexual and spiritual was something that could come naturally and easily to me. I felt broken. I felt ugly. I felt buried in guilt, shame, and trauma. I felt like some people were just lucky, and that I wasn't one of them.
Shifting my limiting beliefs, working through my blocks around sexual shame, healing, and releasing my negative memories, and continually increasing my capacity for receiving are easily some of the most significant accomplishments of my life thus far.
Once I did the work around my mentality around pleasure, desire & uncovering what I truly wanted, everything changed. I went from feeling hopeless & like it wasn't really worth trying to fix my life. I follow the ten step process that I teach in this course like my life depends on it. Because it really did.
The Uncovered Woman is not just about you having deeper relationships, less shame, and better sex.
It is my intention to shift the power dynamics of the world by increasing the number of empowered women on this planet. When women like us drop the guilt around our desire, the world changes.
I'm excited to help unleash a wave of women who aren't held back by body shame, sexual pain, or guilt. Is that you?
Q: What about my husband/partner... How do I tell them I want to invest in this? What if they think it’s silly? Or a waste?
I’ve heard OVER and over from women who mustered up the courage to share about wanting to sign up with the people they love, who they were worried might judge or not understand this, or think it was frivolous, and what they heard over & over was:
DO IT! We want you to be healed from past trauma and enjoying your life. We want you to be able to have sex!!! We want our relationship to be even stronger. We want you to feel confident, beautiful, sacred.
It's okay to share, vulnerably, that this is something you might need. The reaction from supporters alone might be more healing that you even realized.
Moms have bought it for their daughters. Husbands have bought it for their wives.
We get scared, totally understandably, but our healing matters to the people who adore us.
Q: How does it work?
As soon as you sign up, you'll get access to my coaching calendar and you'll be able to schedule your sessions, either weekly or bi-weekly depending on what is needed. I coach on Tuesdays and Wednesdays; other arrangements can be made as necessary. You'll get access to all my courses and can start asap. Be ready for immediate transformation before we have even started, as your energy will shift as soon as you decide to show up for yourself in this way.
Q: What if I’m too broken?
You’re not. I promise you.